In 5 min of searching, Michaux Sate Forest is 2.5 hrs from Philadelphia. It is 85,000 acres of grouse, woodcock, deer, turkey, and im sure anything else you would like to pursue.
https://www.dcnr.pa.gov/StateForests...s/Hunting.aspx
I am 32 and have a ton going on with family and career. I don't think twice at waking up at 3am and driving 5 hrs to a public tract to find wild quail and woodcock. I do it weekly during season. I live in a neighborhood and run my bird dog multiple miles in the morning and afternoon and then am in the office from 730 am - 6pm. Just have to prioritize what is important to you and your family. I am saving to eventually buy a tract to manage for wild quail. It will take me decades, but I will eventually do it. Land near Charleston, SC is around 5k an acre if you're lucky, and I am shooting for at least 300 acres. Knocking on doors down here to hunt doesn't exist anymore. Not sure about PA. I would trade one wild bird over "hunting" a preserve.
Good luck and stay motivated. Figuring it out on public land is one of the most rewarding ways to hunt.