Harry: Francis is dead right. When going through some of my more bleaker times in owing banks money I decided to take the attitude: "Well if they're going to worry about what I owe them, then I'm not going to worry about it. There is no need for both of us to worry!"
And then I created for myself the mindset: "I'm going to put all of my problems (and I had a bunch of them & still do have a few) in a windowless room with only one locked door to which I have the only key. From time to time when I have to I'll go into that room and deal with my problems but I will never let them out to intrude on the rest of my life."
Harry, life is way too short to get all worried and down over financial problems. You are right in trying to solve them but DON'T let them get the better of you. We're all praying for you here.
Best Regards, Your Friend, George
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