I will have to say that this site is one of the most welcoming sites I've ever encountered. When I first came here I felt accepted right away. I don't know where anyone got the idea that the site is arrogant and/or unhelpful. It's also one of the most civil sites I've found; even disagreements are usually carried out without the name-calling and one-upmanship that happens on many sites. And even though it's Parker-centric it's very accepting of things outside that realm and very entertaining.